In all honesty it will be easier, quicker and probably cheaper putting the whole lot in from the disco (if you are ultimately swapping the engine anyway). And depending on the condition it should be more powerful too!
If you want to swap the boxes; You really need a 3.5 torque converter as well as the kickdown linkages (if you can find some). Speedo should be fine as the transfer box goes straight back on the auto box. Need to sort out the cooler for the box, maybe use the disco rad pack.
To swap the whole lot you will need a fuel pump, possibly new speedo cable (take the tranducer off the disco), tune resistor if going to non cat, tubular RRC V8 gearbox crossmember, and then obviously the wiring loom and ecu out the disco (which I would recomend thinning down of all the circuits you dont need).
There will be other things I've forgotten but having effectively done the same thing converting my 3.5 carb RR to Efi serp it's a bit fresher in the mind and I'll probably remember more later