Cedric,
Not sure about the coldness of the inlet manifold suggestion.
By my reckoning its attached to the head where all the combustion takes place and so it should get hot, granted probably not as hot as the exhaust manifold but still hot.
Sorry about not knowing size etc of O rings but I am sure one of the crew with a parts list will be along soon.
It might help if you state the vehicle details or at least the engine info to help them serach out the data.
Tommy